I’m trying so hard to keep my mouth shut… but I can’t do it.
Life is slipping into sweet smiley sunshiny bliss and everyone is walking around looking at me like something is either very wrong… or very right.
Thankfully… it’s the latter.
Nearly everything is perfect these days… with one huge exception.
The man I adore is on the other side of the Earth. Literally.
I’m surrounded by people having half assed relationships, hating their spouses, getting divorced, etc… and I have my very own prince charming nearly 4000 miles away- and I’m pissed about it today.
Patience is not a strong point of mine…. and a girl can only knit so many damn hats, blankets, sweaters and socks.
This princess wants her pirate – yesterday…if not sooner.
My mom laughs at me while I’m whining about it this morning.
M- Honey, you’ve spent your whole life taking care of everyone else. Go for it. Have faith.
J- Thanks for not questioning my sanity.
M- Sweetie if anyone deserves that whole fairytale love story- it’s you… and we’ve all kind of watched this one unfold. How often can someone say there are people waiting to read about your happy ending? That’s pretty amazing… and you’re crazy if you don’t take the chance to have your own happiness too.
I’ve resisted the urge to share him… rather enjoying having him and the amazing words that come from him, all to myself… but I can’t stand it anymore. This man defines why I was born a woman.
I simply can’t avoid saying it anymore… I am the luckiest girl on the planet.
Because the most amazingly wonderful handsome wordy guy on earth…. thinks I’m amazing too- and I fell in love with the way he thinks, what he has to say & who he is before every laying eyes on his beautiful face.
It’s amazing what happens when you do things the right way.
So cheers- to glass slippers and the whole nine yards…
But most of all, to my favorite Pirate… whom I forewarned I couldn’t resist blogging about anymore. lol…
You spectacular example of a man, you…. who could blame me for gushing a little? Spoiling me with sincerity, teasing me with paradise and doting on me from thousands of miles away?
My joy runneth over… to the point I had to share just how amazing you are… with everyone- because the one thing you’ve taught me more than anything is that love, faith and hope is contagious…
♥
YAY you!!
Yay everything these days.
Just got back from a trip visiting my family and I felt completely surrounded by people who hate thier spouses (or just don’t give a damn about him), bad relationships, poss divorces, etc. It’s a damn shame. Too many people settle, and too many people have given up and started to think that fabulous incredible love doesn’t really exist. NOT TRUE…
Love to see someone find it… keep the hope alive!
Fabulous incredible love exists… but you have to know who you’re choosing when you decide, which is really difficult these days…
This man knows more about me than anyone- ever. He thinks more like me than anyone- ever. To quote one of the best women I’ve ever known…
- He gets you. He gets you like we get you. He loves you like we do. Are you sure he’s not a woman? You lucky bitch. lol…
It may not work- and my life is tied to living where I don’t want to for a few more years, so it’s a struggle- at best.
But? I adore him to the depths of his soul when he’s angry and hateful… and he adores me still when I’m venomous and slutty. I’m intimidated as hell by the physicality of actually being there in front of him, chubby thighs and all… but… it’s so much more than that. It’s so much deeper and… well… label me any princess you want… but…he makes me feel like it’s all been worth it if love like this actually exists. Worth a leap of faith, if I do say so myself.
Congratulations and may the best of everything come to your Fairy Tale Dream! A fitting gift for such a Beautiful Queen!
Aren’t you sweet…
I hate to admit it but I’ve gotten a little jaded. I figured it was just not very healthy for men and women to coexist. Relationships seemed to be collapsing all around me- and nobody who was in an existing relationship was actually happy. I had my token two happily married couples. One gay, one straight. Neither are very happy right now-
My love life was in a shambles- I’d given up… and begun to settle for whatever took my mind off the loneliness of being a single mom, missing one kid who hates me and regretting every moment lost with my daughter while I’m working losing precious moments I have with her. It’s a daily struggle, and I’d lost faith, lost hope… and lost myself along the way too.
Then there he was… the man of my dreams, proof that they do exist. My friends have teased me for months. My sister adores him. Even an ex of mine has said…
“I really like That guy… have you thought about considering just taking a chance? I think you should.”
Nothing ventured, nothing gained, right? So I’m going to go with my gut instinct and give myself permission to adore him.
Sometimes life just feels more amazing from the moment you know someone else exists….
That’s how I feel about him.