My Gay Bae

Yesterday was a ground zero sort of day, full of horrified realizations and self flagellation. A pity party for one, if you will. I spent the day at work with hours of my favorite painfully inspirational podcast, Terrible, Thanks for Asking on blast. If you haven't listened to it, I beg you to give it a…

Smart Girls

My eldest daughter surprised me with something so unexpected yesterday that I can’t even put it into words. I called her this morning and cried as soon as her face came into view. She cried with me... because we’re an empathetic bunch and she knows how devastating this week has been. She had me laughing…

I Don’t.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ywjfkW-xLQ0 "Leave his texts on read, leave his balls on blue...put it on airplane mode so none of those calls come through...."  - Cardi B ♥ I'd be lying if I didn't admit to playing the villain in a few boys lives. I ghost them all. K- Are you in the mood for something sweet?…

Game Changer

I'm a bit speechless. We all have that fish who got away, that guy who happens to be the definition of our wishlist. He's the achilles that kills us, the pretty boy that makes us question what we ever saw in every other man and the one we wanted more than oxygen. I called my…

Dirt

My garden is a luxury item I can't help but afford because walking through the gate is my favorite form of therapy.  I find more joy in spraying myself with mosquito repellant and putting on a headlamp to garden in the moonlight, than I have ever found on a date. My tomatoes are starting to…