Another Beautiful Day In Chaos

sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't…

The Dad

Something weird has happened in the space between my eldest and youngest babes. Once upon a time I was one of “The Moms”. The Moms are the group of pajama clad ladies who rush their children to school without so much as getting dressed. There were a few bathrobes, a few hubby t-shirts with leggings and a few scantily clad hotties, (the single moms.) amongst my tribe. We would rush […]

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I Don’t.

“Leave his texts on read, leave his balls on blue…put it on airplane mode so none of those calls come through….”  – Cardi B ♥ I’d be lying if I didn’t admit to playing the villain in a few boys lives. I ghost them all. K- Are you in the mood for something sweet? J- Nope. ………………………… M- Wanna Netflix and chill? J- No. ……………………….. C- I’d love to fuck […]

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I’m not very social anymore. I fake it occasionally, with mixed results. Last night was a perfect example. A friend I’ve had since elementary school invited me to go see some music and play a little. She got me a ticket, had her daughter babysit and offered to pick me up AND deliver me safely home. With no excuses available, anywhere… I had to go. I’d be lying if I […]

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Game Changer

I’m a bit speechless. We all have that fish who got away, that guy who happens to be the definition of our wishlist. He’s the achilles that kills us, the pretty boy that makes us question what we ever saw in every other man and the one we wanted more than oxygen. I called my mama tonight to ask her what I could do to help with the benefit dinner […]

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My garden is a luxury item I can’t help but afford because walking through the gate is my favorite form of therapy.  I find more joy in spraying myself with mosquito repellant and putting on a headlamp to garden in the moonlight, than I have ever found on a date. My tomatoes are starting to ripen and things are getting tall and lush. It’s beginning to look like I actually […]

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